The Dating Game – Part 3 – The art of teasing a wo

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The Dating Game – Part 3 – The art of teasing a woHey to you all, what`s up? :)Here it is another blog post about the Dating Game topic, which means one step forward for you to start learning how to approach and date women the right way.This time, we`ll cut straight to the chase, I mean, no more introductory, bla bla stuff. ;)In one of my last blog posts I`ve been recommending you to meet and hang, as much as possible, around the right people, which consists of, among others, the guys that are already successful with women. Naturals, if possible. I wrote more about this here:https://xhamster.com/stories/the-dating-game-part-1-the-inner-game-789842If you missed it, you REALLY should read it first, contains stuff about the MOST IMPORTANT part of the Game.Now, back to our today`s subject…I had the opportunity to meet such guys and I can tell that almost all of them had in common the following:- very strong personalities;- lots of self-confidence and self-esteem;- open-minded beings;- very sensitive guys;- very unpredictable guys;- a certain level of intelligence;- a very sharp sense of humor (sometimes being even sarcastic);- kind of difficult attitude (sometimes annoying);- kind of… distraught and disorganized.These are interesting personality traits to observe to a guy who is successful with women…but these are not the most important things to retrieve from them. I mean, each of us has its own, unique personality, and I`m not suggesting that, to be successful with women, you should change who you are, so you should become more distraught, more unpredictable etc. After all, we`re all different, and that`s the beauty of humanity. So, if you feel you are a little bit more organized or not that open-minded…don`t be disappointed, you still can play the Game with incredible success. 🙂 But if you`re reading this and you are not a successful guy when it comes to women (including if you are among the guys that spend lots of money and time on pleasing a woman`s material wishes), you should just improve yourself a little bit, that`s all. :)Now, follow me with very close attention on this next one:One thing I observed ALL the guys who are successful with women have in common is that they are all masters in:KNOWING HOW TO TEASE A WOMAN.That`s the only thing you should become VERY good at.Key-question: Why is this so important?Because:1. To learn how to play the Game the right way, you must learn how to spark, increase and maintain the powerful feeling of sexual attraction in the soul and mind of a woman.You can read more about this here:http://xhamster.com/stories/the-dating-game—part-2—basic-instructions-5793162. The ONLY WAY you can achieve this is to learn HOW TO TEASE A WOMAN.Really, that`s the one and only thing you should do. Sounds bahis firmaları easy, isn`t it? :)Well…:))Another key-question: What should I do to tease a woman?There are infinite ways in which you could do that: it could be a gesture, a word or a look of yours, the sound of your voice, the way you are dressed one time, your perfume…it could be anything. I personally think that nobody really knows exactly in how many ways can a woman be teased…not even the women themselves. :)It may seem a little confusing for you right now…but it will all make sense very soon, because there are certain things you should do and work on, so you won`t have to ever think about what particular thing would tease her. These essential things are:1. YOUR BODY LANGUAGEBesides the Inner Game, this is the MOST IMPORTANT thing you should work on and be very careful about while approaching or simply spending time with a woman you like. Here comes something like a magic formula or…scheme for you:To be successful with women, first thing first you must work on your Inner Game, so you should have a certain level of self-confidence and self-esteem.Then you should learn how to spark, increase and maintain the sexual attraction between you and her.In order to spark, increase and maintain the sexual attraction, you should learn how to use your body language the right way.Then…comes the rest of it.When I say “body language” I mean everything concerning your body and parts of it: your posture, your voice, the way you look at her, your gestures, your body`s reactions etc. I`ll debate A LOT about the subject in my future blog post.2. CREATE ANTICIPATIONVery close related to the body language, and the second most important thing you should do in order to tease a woman, is to learn how to create anticipation for her. This is a little bit harder to explain…but I`ll try anyway. 🙂 It consists of all the mysterious, intriguing things that all the women LOVE so much.To be more specific, let me give you a very simple example:Let`s say you`ve just got the contact details of a woman you like and you want to date. You`ll tell her, of course, something like “I`ll call/contact you soon”. Well, if you have the required level of self-confidence and self-esteem, and if you`ve been using your body language the right way until that moment, for her, that “I`ll call/contact you soon” means that you`ll call/contact her, but she doesn`t know when and where it will happen. Also…do you like her enough, will you really call/contact her?…:)) Get it? You wouldn`t even leave her, and she would already miss you and think about you.That`s what`s anticipation all about. Just DON`T ruin it, by calling/contacting her the same day, or the second day after. And ABSOLUTELY no “you are so sexy/cute/beautiful/goddess/ kaçak iddaa sweet etc.” stuff.I`ll write you more about anticipation in the second blog post after this.3. BE ARROGANT AND FUNNY……both, in the same time. First thing first, you must know that although this is the most amusing and fun part of the Game…it is not the most important thing you should work on. It is more like…the salt and pepper of it.This attitude you should have is like the natural consequence of all the good things you`ve been working on so far, like your Inner Game or your body language.And what`s this all about?It`s about being arrogant in a funny, amusing way, or funny, amusing in an arrogant way, whatever you like it. The most important thing you must be careful about this attitude is to be equally arrogant and funny. I mean, too much funny may give her the feeling that you are a clown or something, and she will like you, but place you rapidly in her “friend” zone, and if you are too arrogant, she will place you immediately in the “asshole” zone, which is…the worse scenario possible. :))Anyway, both cases are VERY BAD, because you want to have sex with her, right?To make things more clearly, I`ll place in this part of the Game all the things about your general attitude you should have when you are around a woman you like. And generally, you should act like…YOU DON`T NEED A THING IN THE WORLD…ESPECIALLY HER.Yeah, guys, that`s what she really lusts for, a guy with a strong personality, that knows how to control his emotions around her and that can make her feel safe and fun to be with.That`s why all the other approaches: lots of compliments, hook-up lines, expensive gifts and dinners etc. are sweet but they make her perceive you more as of a good friend, puppy humping her leg or…sad kitty. Really! :)) and all these doesn`t seem very sexy, don`t they?Let me be more specific about the general attitude you should have with an example:Let`s say that you are talking with a woman you like, about a subject she seems to be very interested in. She wears a ponytail. When she talks to you most vividly, just stay as calm as possible and look straight in her eyes (body language). Something like you are listening to her…but something else might be more important for you than what she`s talking to you. One moment, she`ll surely stop (more or less surprised) and ask you something like: “what happened?” or “something`s wrong?” In that moment, wait for a few seconds (anticipation) and then tell her, as calm as possible, with a sigh smile in the corner or your mouth and (it would be great) with your eyebrow raised (body language): “you should loosen your hair, I think you`d look better that way.” Now…again, if you have the required level of self-confidence kaçak bahis and self-esteem, and if you`ve been using your body language the right way until that moment, she`ll loosen her hair. After a while, when she is again the most caught in what she is saying to you, stop her and tell her something like: “You can wear your ponytail, I think I like it better, however.” If you`ve been playing your cards right until that moment, most probably, she`ll look like a little bit annoyed, but she`ll do it. Maybe even laugh a little. This time, she might also ask you something like…”is it ok for you now?” In such case, wait again a few seconds (anticipation), looking at her, and with a face of a critic in fine arts (body language), tell her something like: “Hmmm…yes….it`s ok.” NEVER look too excited about things concerning her, no matter how much you like them. Just act cool and hard to be pleased. And this is not all. If you meet her again, and you see her wearing a ponytail, without even saying “hi!”, the first thing you should tell her should be about her hair style, something like: “Why do you wear your hair like that? Didn`t I tell you that you look better with it loosen?” Do this with a straight, serious face, but with a playful voice (body language).:)) Right now, these might seem like senseless, useless, annoying chit-chats to you, that will ruin your chances with her, but that`s really a very good example of how you must play the Game in real life. BE like that and DO things like that. She`ll love it. 🙂 You just have to be ENOUGH self-confident while playing like that around women. “Enough” means not too little, because you`ll seem insecure and not too much, because you`ll seem like a jerk. Also, put a little bit of fun and naughtiness on it and…there you are, a fine man, any woman in this world would love to date with! :)Now, in the end, let`s have a little conclusion here:I`m not a woman, so I can`t possibly know exactly how the sexual attraction works for the females, but from what I`ve seen so far, I think that, at least at the beginning, this feeling is something like a tickling. It is annoying, but fun in the same time, sometimes even makes you laugh like crazy. Isn`t it, girls? That`s what you should give to a woman you really like and want to be with.Another VERY IMPORTANT thing you must always remember is that women are experts in the art of teasing men and other women too, both in the sexual and non-sexual way. So you shouldn`t take this teasing stuff too lightly, but in the same time, you shouldn`t worry too much about it. You must find a balance. All you must keep in your mind is that if you do it the right way, she`ll love it and she`ll think of you something like: “Wow! He gets it…” that`s my kind of guy!” 🙂 😉 And this is VERY GOOD.In the next blog posts we`ll take the three: body language, anticipation and the (arrogant and funny) attitude and debate each of them with many, many details.Until then…have fun, and be happy! 🙂

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